What do early 20s do? Aside from work!

1. Be active in social media

Think before you click. But don’t be too greedy in sharing good happenings in your life.

2. Give yourself the permission to spoil in good investments ones in a while.

Go girl get yourself a good quality lipstick.

Go grab that Nike shoes.

Having a herschel bag is an investment plus fashionable.

Buy yourself some smart phone

Experiment in good make up: Eyebrow powder/pencil, glitter eye cream and blush on

3. Take care of your skin

Cleanse. And moisturize. Exfoliate ones in a while. Drink plenty of water and your daily dose of Vitamins.

4. Build new habits and learnings

Since this is the best time to do this things.

Enroll in a class that you are passionate about, or may as well, asked google or youtube for help.

“Self-learning”

5. Share and expose your talents

The first time is always the hardest and most of the times our nagging negative thoughts takes it away from us – hold on baby girl!

There is no regret in doing what you hold on dearly in your heart.

6. Be the best version of yourself at work

Know that someone ABOVE is watching over you. Work hard and honestly even if no one is watching.

7. Practice and be Honest, truthful and real. Be yourself.

Be true to yourself and in dealing with others.

It’s always the best feeling in the world to be appreciated for who you truly are.

8. Buy yourself a bike.

Cycling is the best. Most especially riding on your bike after the rain poured down.

9. Go out more often. Reconnect with nature

On your free time. Go out. Be with nature. Inhale more fresh air. Explore your place.

10. Keep a fit and healthy weight

Know your ideal weight for your height through body Mass Index.

And keep a healthy weight.

Our metabolism slows down ones we reach 20.

11. Adopt a pet

I tell you, having my cat and dog made me life extra brighter and happier.

Buy be sure you are committed to having a pet.

Find time to take them out for a walk.

12. Open a savings account

Or even to invest your money in stocks, although personally I haven’t invested ,yet since I don’t have enough knowledge about it. Although I am already reading articles about how to invest.

Open a saving account as for emergency funds or when you’re ready to invest or build your own business.

13. Embrace your singlehood

Believe in God’s perfect time. In the waiting, be the happiest girl you know.

14. Expand your faith

Pray without ceasing.

15. Help out your family

On my part, I help out my family with groceries and other stuffs.

16. Love your work and you will never feel like working but having fun

Know that on your up, you must start below.

And whatever you do, do it for the Lord.

17. Unleash your sexy diva

Don’t be afraid to show some skin, but remember to stay classy.

If your gonna wear off-shoulder then try to wear a jeans.

Balance it, babe.

(I want to whiten my underarm😂)

18. Once in a while, poke a heart reaction to your crush post

19. Budget your money well

Ones I received my salary, I budget it immediatel through allocating it properly.

20. Build memories and capture more photos with friends, family and in your life.

Since time flies so fast.

See you later!

I am his daughter but I am a different person. Be brave girl

*credits to the owner of the photo.

Ever woke up in a bad dream, with a frozen- cold arms and body, so frozen you cannot even move freely? … because I just did.

Cannot believe it.

I did not choose to have this life. I have been avoiding this. I never wanna be in the same space as him because his negative energy is so strong, that I tend to loss mine.. that it confuses me, if this sudden anger or heaviness I am feeling is mine or his.

I get scared to be honest around him. He drops and do things that startle me most of the time. Worst case, I’m actually mimicking such poor behavior.

If he can do what he did last December 2015 and last night, for sure he can do worse. And its scaring me so much. I don’t feel safe anymore. What should I do?

I have money and work. I am already 23 perhaps I can already move out.

Moving out would not mean I am trying to escape him, but for me it mostly means I am protecting my peace and sanity. I cannot live this way fed up by all the hurtful things he has to say about me being this and that.

When in the beginning, he made me be this way towards him.

I am sick of all the dramas and crying. I have my problems at work and now he is making my life worse with all his dramas.

If I did not have a choice before, I do have now.

My feets and sweats are cold even my hand.. I don’t want this. But its scares me.

Do I have to live this way everyday? Or can I do something about this?

For even in my dreams he follows me and scares me.

I want to move on.

This is for that girl who grew up storing hatred in his heart for a father whom he cannot look in the eyes for all the times he made her feel bad about herself.